They say the past catches up with you. Even if you don't do, nor say. You just 'appear' to someone else to be a cunt. That alone is substance enough to provide future recriminations, especially if they take over the pub next door and block your car in 'because they can'. And what can you do, but hope for a little happiness in their lives.
Peace.
p.s I pepper sprayed myself by accident today, then went for a wee.